Showing posts with label In Memory. Show all posts
Showing posts with label In Memory. Show all posts

Friday, June 26, 2015

5 on Friday -- Set 272




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For anyone who wants to join in, simply choose five pieces of music and post them for other bloggers to enjoy. Then check out the set posted by the other 5 on Friday blogger -- you can sign in over at Golch Central's Rambling Stuff.

My mom and I attended the funeral of a family friend this afternoon -- former radio broadcaster Ron Roberts.

Ron had passed away on May 4th, but his memorial service was delayed until today as his niece was also helping out another elderly family member at the same time. Originally from Cornwall, Ontario, his extended family remains there while Ron spent the last five decades here in the Maritimes.

A very close friend of my Uncle Charlie's, Ron celebrated his 80th birthday in 2013, where I joined my aunt and uncle, my mom, my sister and my brother-in-law to wish Ron a Happy Milestone Birthday.






That's Ron sitting on the couch reading a birthday greeting, surrounded by well-wishers -- including his niece at right who helped with both this birthday and now with arranging his memorial service.




That's me with my sister Michelle and my brother-in-law Newt at the party.




Also at our table: Mrs. Thorne, wife of one of the musicians in Uncle Charlie's various bands; Aunt Noel and Mom




Ron's lifelong radio days friends and fellow broadcasters John Cunningham at left, Clary Flemming, center, and Uncle Charlie at right read long-distance birthday greetings (including one from my other uncle, Warren, in Michigan) from the many friends Ron made in his broadcasting career.

Once again, Uncle Charlie spoke to the gathering following Ron's funeral, at the reception.

In honour of Ron and his made-for-radio voice, his encyclopedic musical knowledge and his unending love of the big band era, swing jazz, cool jazz and cool cats, here is a Ron-inspired 5 on Friday set featuring some of his favourites -- beginning with a song that he co-wrote.



1 - One Little Girl - Carl Dobkins, Jr.


Ron did an extensive blog interview about his career last year for Bevboy. Here are some tales about the tracks in today's set:

"While I was here in Halifax, I was going with a pretty young girl from Queen Elizabeth High School. I wrote a song that was recorded by Carl Dobkins, Jr...He had a big hit with 'Look! Look! My Heart Is An Open Book!' It was his first big hit. And this was a follow up to it. It automatically got a lot of air play."  







2 - Anywhere I Wander - Julius La Rosa


"I was a big fan of La Rosa’s because he, next to Frank Sinatra, his phrasing is better than any singer going...He never recorded very much. I only have one album by him, I think." 








3 - It Shouldn't Happen to a Dream - Al Hibbler


"Al Hibbler...was a blind singer with Duke Ellington’s band. He came here to Halifax to do a show at the Forum, which I MC’d. The opening act was a very young comedian/impersonator by the name of Rich Little. 

They came back to my place after for a party. When you come off the Bedford highway, around the corner on to Joe Howe, that red brick building with the wooden top, that was my place...But I had no furniture whatsoever: I had just moved in. I invited them back to my place for drinks and sandwiches, but we all sat on the floor. Rich Little is telling, in voice, some of the dirtiest jokes you could never tell on air. 


Before we went on stage at the Forum, I asked Al Hibbler if he would take requests. I said, 'My favourite Al Hibbler song is ‘It Shouldn’t Happen To A Dream’.' We’re all sitting on the floor with our backs against the wall...I said, 'You didn’t sing my song!' He said, 'I’m sorry. I forgot all about it. I’ll do it now. Do you have a piano?' I said, 'Do I have a piano? I don’t even have any frigging furniture! Why do you think you’re sitting on the floor?' He said, 'That’s ok. I’ll do it anyway.' And it was one of the most beautiful moments of my life. He put his hand up to his ear and leaned right into my face and started singing. It was magic: Al Hibbard, singing right to me in my place like that."









4 - Lady of the Lavender Mist - Duke Ellington Orchestra


"I used to use this theme called 'The Turquoise Cloud'. On the same album, there was a song called 'Lady of the Lavender Mist'. It’s a very hard song for anybody to hum because it’s all in the voicing of the instruments he used. 

Duke Ellington’s band played The Lobster Trap. It was in the basement of what is the Trademart Centre is now. He was there for a week. Peter Power is my longest and oldest dearest friend. He was the President of the Musician’s Union...He took me backstage to meet Duke Ellington.

At the time he was very, very old and not very well. I said, 'Does a guy get to make a request?' He said, 'Yes. What would you like to hear?' I said, 'Could you do ‘Lady of the Lavender Mist’?' He said, 'How does it go?' I thought, 'Is he putting me on? There’s no way I’m going to stand here in front of this genius and try to hum this melody to him!' " 









5 - Somewhere Beyond the Sea - Bobby Darin


"When I was working at WSDS in Massena I heard that [Bobby] was appearing at the Three Rivers Inn, which is just outside of Syracuse. When I worked at WOLF I used to go there all the time.

Anyway, I drove from Massena to see him at the Three Rivers Inn. After the show the guy said, 'You’ll have to wait to go upstairs to the dressing room.'...When I did go up, he was sitting there in his shorts with a towel around him. And, I saw all these great big tanks. At the time, I thought, 'Oh, they’re probably used to fill balloons for the chorus girls or if somebody’s having a birthday.' I later learned that, oh, my god, they were for him. He would just have to go and suck oxygen afterward...You would never know because he just gave everything he had."

  

Friday, January 23, 2015

5 on Friday -- Set 256




Spinning Friday tunes since 2010...

For anyone who wants to join in, simply choose five pieces of music and post them for other bloggers to enjoy. Then check out the set posted by the other 5 on Friday blogger -- you can sign in over at Golch Central's Rambling Stuff.




In memory of my Uncle Frank, who passed away on Wednesday, January 21st, 2015, here's a set of traditional bluegrass and Appalachian music for a Virginia mountain man and gentle giant.

That's my mom giving her brother-in-law the classic Meuse sisters cheek squeeze in the early 80s. My grandma, originally a Meuse, and all of her sisters -- and possibly all female ancestors from this line -- were unrivaled cheek squeezers.

Usually he was too tall to have to worry about that too much. Ha ha!



1 - Wandering Boy - Adam Hurt 







2 - Take Me Home, Country Roads - John Denver 






3 - Keep on the Sunny Side - The Carter Family 






4 - Tis Sweet to Be Remembered - Flatt and Scruggs 







5 - In the Sweet By and By - Bluegrass Martins 





Thursday, June 20, 2013

Thursday Thirteen - 283 - 13 Ways to Remember My Grandmother



1 - Last Thursday my sister and I boarded a plane to fly to Michigan. Although my sister and her husband had just been in Michigan only a few weeks before, she was headed back again. Her strong urge to schedule their vacation for May and to drive there to see our 90-year-old grandmother Viola gave them a last chance to see each other before Grandma's life came to an unexpected close.




2 - This is the quilted runner that my sister made for Grandma, using her favorite color -- purple. Grandma was a talented quilter. The purple quilt which she made for my wedding is one of my most prized possessions.

Grandma had not been ill, merely elderly. No one was expecting her to pass away, although my sister's urge to get to Michigan was, in hindsight, an important one.



3 - This is a shot of the wedding quilt Grandma made for me. It wasn't a stored-away kind of quilt. We used it every day. This was taken when I lived in Toronto in the late 90s, and shows my husband Brad with our little cousin Emily.




4 - This was taken at a Phillips family dinner in Michigan, where I lived until I was six. I'm the older sister in blue. Grandma was the originator of what is now known as Phillips rice, my most favorite food in all the world. It was served at every Phillips dinner, and is now made by all of the  granddaughters -- even by me, the non-cook.

It's fairly simple: just cook the rice in chicken or turkey broth instead of plain water, with a bit of butter if needed, and a few blobs of ketchup, and a bit of black pepper. Mmm, mmm, mmm. Grandma got this recipe from an old Armenian neighbor of theirs.




5 - I believe this was a Thanksgiving dinner, 1970-ish, at Grandma and Grandpa Phillips'. Pictured from left: my Grandma Doucet (my mom's mother), a family friend whose name escapes me, my Aunt Suzie (Dad's sister) and Uncle Raymond, Grandma Phillips, Grandpa Phillips, Aunt Denise and Uncle Maurice (Dad's brother), Aunt Loretta (Dad's sister), little me, my dad, little Michelle (my sister) and my mom. My Grandpa Doucet (Mom's father) was a photographer and likely took this picture. He definitely took the black-and-white portrait at the top of the blog.


  

6 - Cheers! My grandparents came from Quebec to Michigan in the 50s for work, and like immigrants everywhere, all of the French Canadians found one another in their new anglophone American life. That's how my two families -- my dad's side and my mom's side -- came to be friends with one another before my parents even began dating.




7 - Here's a great shot of two sweethearts in Canada, 1942. Gaby and Vi, starting a life together.




8 - Did I mention that my silliness factor always rates in the higher percentile? Quite obviously, inherited.




9 - Here my dad is sneaking up on us in my grandparents' backyard. Silly.




10 - Uh oh...still silly.




11 - This was a Christmas celebration with the Phillips' after many years celebrating with the Doucet side in Nova Scotia, Canada. My parents had moved back to Michigan for a year in the late 80s. I've got my back to the camera as we sang carols together.




12 - These are the flowers we brought to the church, celebrating her life and saying farewell at her funeral mass last Saturday.

Six years ago, only a month after I began my blog -- the imminent passing of my dad encouraged me to put waiting aside and seize the day -- Grandma Phillips, my Aunt Loretta and my cousins Shelly and Jenny hopped in Shelly's van and raced out here to spend my dad's last days together. Grandma, my step-mom Doris, my Aunt Loretta, my sister and I were all present when my dad passed away. I'll always remember how my grandma laid her hand on dad and said, "I was with you on your first day, and now I'm with you on your last." Then she led us all in a recitation of the Hail Mary.




13 - My sister somehow knew Grandma's time on this earth was winding down. She got to Gram only hours before she had a massive stroke and began her passing away.

It was a bittersweet joy to reunite with my aunt and my cousins for my grandma's funeral. My thanks go out to them for their trip here six years ago.

Pictured from left, back row: my late Uncle Maurice's daughters Jamie and Christa (with recently-wed Casey in Oklahoma) / Aunt Loretta's daughters Jenny and Shelly

Front row, L to R: oldest sibling Norman's daughters, myself and Michelle / the last member of her immediate family, my Aunt Loretta, and her daughter Tammy 

Friday, June 14, 2013

5 on Friday - Set 175



Travis at Trav's Thoughts invites everyone to lay down a short set of music that takes their fancies for his 5 on Friday meme.


As you read this, I'll be in Michigan to attend my grandmother's funeral.


She was my last remaining grandparent. For someone nearing 50, it's not very common to have living grandparents. I've been very blessed with two grandmothers who lived into their early 90s.

As we celebrate my grandmother's life and enjoy the family reunion that always coincides with the sadness of saying goodbye, here are five tunes inspired by this week's farewell.

1 - St. Anne's Reel - Don Messer

My grandpa (Viola's husband) was a fiddle player who kept many a house party jumping. This was one of their favorite tunes.




2 - Linger Awhile - Paul Whiteman and His Orchestra

This tune debuted the same year my grandmother did--in 1923.






3 - Perfidia - Xavier Cugat and his Waldorf Astoria Orchestra

This recording charted in 1941, the year my grandma became a mother with her first-born--my dad Norman.





4 - When You're Hot, You're Hot - Jerry Reed

My family moved from Michigan to Nova Scotia on Canada's east coast in 1971, when this song was a chart-topper. There was a big surprise going-away party for us, held at Grandma and Grandpa Phillips' house, with a barbeque in their big backyard. I remember one of the men singing this song at one point.




5 - Suddenly I See - KT Tunstall

This song charted in 2007, the year my grandma hopped in a van with my aunt and my cousins to drive here from Michigan to Nova Scotia to be with her son, my dad, in his final days.




Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Almost Wordless Wednesday - 181
















Remembering my dad on his birthday, December 29th

Monday, November 1, 2010

Poetry Train Monday - 176 - Excerpt from In Childhood








Today my grandmother is on my mind, as it would have been her birthday today, Nov. 1st. She was the beginning of the November birthdays, which for my family and friends is jam-packed:

the 2nd, 7th, 11th (twice), 16th, 18th, 20th, 23rd and 25th all belong to someone I love and celebrate.

The 1st still belongs to Gram, though I can't tell her Happy Birthday with a kiss. I'll just wish it to her in my heart.














From In Childhood


the blue parakeet does not return
from the little grave in the fern garden
though one may wake in the morning
thinking mother's call is the bird.
Or maybe the bird is with grandmother
inside light. Or grandmother was the bird
and is now the dog
gnawing on the chair leg.
Where do the gone things go
when the child is old enough
to walk herself to school,
her playmates already
pumping so high the swing hiccups?


- Kimiko Hahn

For more poetry, Ride the Poetry Train!

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Almost Wordless Wednesday - 132


















Brooke says When my sister died we still had cake on her birthday in her memory..

Storyteller says What a wonderful photo!

Akelamalu says It's good to remember the happy times.